You want to have a nice mind, a spiritual mind. You want you and your mind to walk to heaven together. Well, it might not happen. You might have to leave him. You are going to come to this place where it doesn't matter what the mind says.
Until we know that the mind is what you take it to be, it seems to have an independent power. To say: forget about everything, for me is pure love. Drop it. Can you? You'll immediately find love. This love is not a sentimental love ... this love is pregnant with wisdom.
Be dead ... but fully alive. Such a wonderful opportunity to forget about yourself.