Mooji says that you cannot change your personality in a flash but you can realize the Self in a flash. It is not that the conditioning has to leave, but that the identity has to be exposed. Don't try to change yourself - that is to put your power in the wrong place. Just find out who you are.
We are here to hatch, to crack open and to peck ourselves out of our own shell - the limited life lived merely from the perspective as persons.
Ultimately it all boils down to a certain state which is not a profile, a thing or a way to be. It's so empty. You see everything as a phenomenal movement, an object of perception. Who is the one perceiving this?